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27 Aug 2009 5:44 PM

Most of us will be subjected to the inevitable booty call at some point in our lives.
Whether you are married, single in or out of a relationship chemistry is all around us we are creatures of desires wants and needs.
How we handle the Booty Call is what is important.

For most Men a booty call is just some casual sex, a moment of excitement and passion no strings attached (non-emotional) during most booty calls there will be no talk about anything but the sex at hand. For most Women, a booty call may be perceived as more, the passion shared and the overwhelming excitement of the moment begins to re-wire our brains into thinking wow! he is so passionate so strong and so attentive to my needs! that before you know it you think there is more than that happening and in most cases you will wait for the call that never comes.

When we find ourselves vulnerable due to lack of a partner/ mate or because our current partner is not giving us the attention we need you can truly make the booty call mistake very easily! Now ladies if you just want the sex and nothing more then more power to ya!  have at it! but if you feel you want to know beforehand to be prepared you'll need to consider some of the signs...so you wont be hurt by it.

                  ****(How to recognize the booty caller)****
**The booty caller will never say they love you but only during sex.
**They never invite you out unless it has some relation to sex.
**They never bring anything unless is to be used for sex.
**Will call you from time to time to get more sex.
**Will almost never kiss your mouth but onlyy during sex.
**The emails and phone calls end shortly after the booty call.
**They will never sit and talk with you unless it has some sexual dialogue.
**They only compliment you before the booty call almost never afterward.
**They want to have sex on the first date <- very important one to remember.
**They never want to get to know you first...go out have dinner or a movie.
**They are not very interested in what you're thinking or feeling.

I was lucky enough to have a Brother whom bluntly advises me how Men think and how to quickly get rid of the booty callers.

In all retrospect of this blog I was identifying "myself" in the matter mostly ... and since I am a straight female then of course it related mostly to the <Male> aspect of my view. But yes folks it can go either way...the booty caller may in fact be Male or Female..hetero or gay.. does not matter which we all have needs, wants, desires fantasies and some of us are bolder in persuing them than others. It is only my opinion and have had many a personal friends both Male and Female that have been through the hurt of not realizing they've just been the subject of the Booty Caller.



I hope this helps someone out there.

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