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5 May 2008 10:22 PM

Let me add this...(yes I have returned to the scene). I was laughing when I wrote this, please....my writing must be terrible for people to always think I am being hateful or sarcastic. I will try to work on that...another case of "is it you, or is it me" ? I will study this further....
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      Well I see this morning we have two sides to the coin. As is in nature. The yin/yang of life as we now know it. Life is a dualality.
      Ynot is ready to verbally let loose and Cherie, bless her sweet heart wants all of us to just get along. Both have their fan clubs, both are loved, by most everyone. Why our " Y"  is somewhat of a hero, I haven't quite figured out why yet....just kidding, I have grown a bit fond of him myself over time.
    " Over time", there is the key phrase here. I myself have seen to many "luv u, love you, and kisses and hugs" to and from people who have only known each other over the period of a week or less (in some cases). Yes I know,  some may say well it's our custom, it's a southern thing, or thats just how I talk to everyone.
      All that have been in here for months and the others who have known each other for years, thats wonderful. I do believe we build bonds, friendships, partnerships and relationships. We build those things, they don't just happen overnight. It is not love at first poem...well once in a blue moon....(yes, they do come around, I think).  I  myself have grown fond of some of you..over time.
    How many of you have left and came back, come in and out? This is building and growing, constant change and reshifting of power and egos. We are, after all human. We are learning life rules  in here. People skills. We could learn to read, write, spell etc. if we paid attention and applied ourselves. Fifties is a wonderful place for all that and more. A little flash in my head just reminded me this is a romance site. We as constant bloggers here, well I, sometimes forget that. This is a business.
    So I don't know.....this was the emotion I had this morning after reading the new blogs. New to me this morning anyway. I have thought a bit about it and realized we can't live in a lovey dovey world all the time. That is what some call Heaven. A place to be looking forward to. This is an emotional world and we have emotions...and thats ok. There are friends here to help, one way or another. There are new friends being made, constantly. Constant change.
    So for today I say "what the heck boys, duke it out". Everyone say what they must and get it over with. Don't read the blogs if ya don't like them...and for the pacifists ...just keep putting the flowers and recipies...and hope that someone doesn't get mad because you stole their idea or something. This is like having a huge, huge family. Someone is going to be feeling the whole range of emotions...every single day, every minute...Kids squabble...
      So take care all....do I have an aversion to the telling of affection, before its due time ?....why yes, I do....but then...that is another story. Have a nice week all.

ps. Yes I just re-read (I TRY to proof read to clean it up and fix it nice), anyway in re-reading I realized some of you that I do care about and call friend, well you also put "hugs, kisses, etc" duh. I am not saying its NOT ok. for some of you that is who you are....and thats ok. I was just trying to say we can't expect all to "love" everyone right off the bat. Life doesn't work that way. No offense intended...

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