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30 Jul 2008 9:30 AM

hello all,

    thought I would take a minute here as I have not done so in so long. Wanted to make a few comments, try to break the cycle of pain for some and rejoice at a new life for others.
    So many of you have become somewhat...a bit mind you, a bit dearer to me than I had thought a few months ago. It certainly has been a process, and will never be over. Not really.
    PJ sweet man you are, (or have the potential for , for those who think otherwise), you are going to be facing thoughts and experiences you have not dealt with before. Simply because you have not had this experience before and you almost have to travel the road to yourself. Not alone....but to yourself. Stop and call for a friend when you need to and one or a dozen will be right there. My heart is with you my friend, sleep well.
    We also celebrate the birth of at least one new baby also. A little girl I hear. I have no details, y'all know more than I on that probably. Grandma Tal was wandering in a daze of glory last time I ' chatted' with her. Relief, joy and sleeplessness make for a strange conversation. So congratulation to you, I hear mom, dad and baby doing fine and big sister couldn't be happier. ( lol, that may not be the case when she is 16 and wants to go out and has to babysit little sis or take her along hahahahah)

    So a strange opening, saying good by to one and hello to another. Such is the cycle of life. Today the world goes on, spinning and gravity doing it marvelous thing that it does. Some where a newborn is crying and the parents are so glad to hear the cry of life. Somewhere some are weeping, for the sadness of losing a life. My neighbor lost her nephew two weeks ago. Car crash, young kid, 28, speeding in the rain, instant. My neighbor and her sister, the boys mother, are having a really hard time. Thats two neighbors,out of 4.
   
    Also want to give a hello to Ynot and wish him well and hope the best for his best mate. A good friend, mate, is a really hard thing to come by when you look at the statistics for divorce. lol  Sometimes our friends last longer than our marriages, sad but true. So wishing you the very best for your mate "y" and I know you will be with him at hospital a lot, so keep yourself fit also.
    I see we have an influx of new members and people popping in and out. Some looking for love, romance and a quick chat, others needing support and time away from their loneliness. Some seem to stay a day or two, some are still trying to find their way through the maze of cyberpeople. Most I have met are quite nice and I would love to get to know better. Some close to me geographically and others....still across the pond and around the corner, and down under.  Hey some real good lookers joining in now, I'm telling you....men and women. Some of them a bit young and I believe we discussed that issue a while back. Let me see was that Oth that had an offer of some type....???LOL

    Young, older, medium its is of no matter, everyone is just trying to get through the day as best they can. This family seems more like a  giant ...I am not sure what, bigger by the day, and growing so fast we may lose our familar voices. I hope not. I already see a few who have gone quiet. Makes us wonder doesn't it ? Myself, I have gotten to scattered and need to begin to focus more and concentrate on one or two subjects...instead of so many directions.   
    Some don't go to chat, they only seem to disscuss. Some only go here... it just makes it all so interesting. We see personalities, sometimes quickly and raises the hair on the back of our neck and sometimes takes a while to get to know people. So lets all try to make welcome the newcomers. I am SO VERY sure that Admin 1 would be happy if we played nice. This is the way they planned things you know.
    The more the merrier is their motto. lol  So the playground has opened its gates but the rides still are pretty familiar I suppose we really do need to share.
     
    To all the new comers...be patient with us, there have been hurtful things along with the joyful things. There have been bonds made and bonds broken, hearts lifted and slamed back down. We can be a suspitious lot that is for sure, but for the most part we are forgiving and lasting. You will find some true friends here if you will take your time and be patient. Seperate the wheat from the chaff and what you end up with will hopefully worth the trouble and the wait.
    So everyone have a great week. I am sorry if I did not get to your blog to make a comment or reply. I have been jumping all over the place and I apologize I have not intended to disrespect any.
    Joyous could use some encouraging words also for those who don't go to the prayer thread. So keep her in mind friends, as she is our stability and always a kind word without any judgement to any.

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