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Auntie Freda
07-31-2009, 04:11 PM
I promised Mugsy in Chat that I would open a thread on this Topic here.
I had momentarily forgotten that we had gone into the question in some depth in the 'Australian Justice?' thread a little while ago.
Rather than repeat my verbosity, I post the thoughts below as a kick-starter.
Let me be crystal clear - whilst I do not feel that perpetrators should be subjected to brutality, I fully accept that Society has a perfect right to do whatever is NECESSARY to protect its young.


Quite often we read reports of American court decisions which make us scratch our heads in disbelief.
BUT, I've got to admit that occasionally there are some quite puzzling ones in Aus too !

I acknowledge that one really should be present in the court to hear all the evidence and the legal arguments before rushing to judgement BUT
http://www.news.com.au/couriermail/story/0,23739,25651579-952,00.html
a father catches a bloke IN THE ACT of molesting his 10 year old son - and gives the molester a hiding.
The molester subsequently walks free from the court
and the father looks like going to jail !
How can THAT be justice ???????????

Clearly, I was somewhat outraged when wording my original post.
On sober reflection, I have mellowed A LITTLE.
......... it seems to me that there are TWO issues.
"Should the molester have been freed simply because he had copped a beating from the child's father ?"
Surely the answer is a resounding "NO".
Society does have an absolute right to protect its young from abusers.
The perpetrator should have been locked up for that reason alone - if for no other.

The second question, for me, is not quite so simple.
"Did the parent have an absolute right to beat the living crap out of the guy ?"
He most certainly had the right to use whatever force necessary to stop the incident in its tracks - no question. But beyond that ?
I suggest not.
In a civilized society, we do NOT have the right to take the law into our own hands.
If one feels strongly, work to lobby those in power to legislate for change.
We simply cannot kill or maim with impunity.

That said, I acknowledge that if one of my own were thus treated, who could say what one might do ?

The bottom line is that these child abusers are obviously mentally ILL.
In NO sociey could their actions be considered 'normal'.
Many, even most, ARE apparently the product of massive abuse in their own childhood.
We no longer cast the mentally ill into medieval bedlam asylums chained to walls and so on - or execute them.
Neither, though, can we tolerate them as ongoing threats within our communities.
So, sure, isolate them by all means - but not necessarily in primitive, barbaric conditions.
"Revenge" might seem sweet - but is it really ?

Joyous
07-31-2009, 06:35 PM
Revenge may not be the proper reaction, but I can honestly say that I would have to be restrained.

Auntie Freda
07-31-2009, 10:58 PM
I really doubt that, Joyous.
Once the perpetrator was no longer a threat, either in legal custody or restrained by others or unconscious or whatever,
I can't see you THEN taking to him with a castration knife or beating his head to a battered pulp with a club.

And that's what we're talking about. By all means, do WHATEVER needs to be done to remove the threat ...... but after that ?

Joyous
08-01-2009, 03:20 PM
My basic nature would be revenge, but I hope I would ask myself, WWJD.

I can fully understand how a parent could be driven to beat the daylights out of a person who abused their child. Even if the perp had been apprehended and found guilty.

Auntie Freda
08-01-2009, 03:39 PM
My basic nature would be revenge, but I hope I would ask myself, WWJD.Precisely. Civilized, rational people, regardless of the "J' factor, would hopefully not act like barbarians.
Overcoming that 'revenge' instinct would be one indication that man IS progressing from his primitive past.

Joyous
08-01-2009, 03:46 PM
Of course you're right, but often mothers and sometimes dads come unglued when their children are harmed - or grandchildren. Wouldn't the world be a better place without child abusers?

eye-c
08-01-2009, 04:55 PM
If anyone harmed my child when they were little, I would have done serious damage to them! I did beat some creep off my daughter who grabbed her in broad daylight, as we were walking to the shops! I DIDN`T think - I reacted! She was about 10 at the time, and he jumped out of some bushes we were passing and just grabbed her! He held her from behind and I just went BOLISTIC!! I beat him with every bit of strength I had and overcame him!! Not one person passing in their cars stopped to help, and it was a busy street! I am 5 ft 2 and small, but I overcame this creep, because the maternal instinct gave me incredible strength - thank God! I would have killed him if he had done anything more to my girl, with no hesitation and no regrets! She is a black belt in Karate now and would probably be able to protect ME in a similar situation, far more adequatly and seriously! lol When it comes to your children you don`t think things through but act instinctively to protect them! If anyone actually DID molest them sexually when they were little, I would have hunted the perpetrator down and killled them with my bare hands!!! I make no opology for feeling that way either!

Auntie Freda
08-01-2009, 04:59 PM
Sure Joyous - so isolate them so they cannot exercise their sick perversions.
But there are a great many whom the world would be better without.
Where would one stop ? And who would decide ?
For example, I might think that a world without Christians might be a good idea
or cat-lovers
or Americans ..............................

I mean, each of the above has been responsible for some pretty dreadful stuff.

eye-c
08-01-2009, 10:19 PM
So have drunks!

Mugsy628
08-02-2009, 05:07 AM
I must say I have to agree with Fred. If my child were in danger, certainly I would do all I could to protect him. However, once the perpetrator had been caught and removed, I would tend to focus my energy on my child rather than on revenge. For one thing, revenge and hatred do more damage to the one who is seeking revenge than it could ever do to the object of that revenge. Anger is a great motivator. It can motivate one to violence, but it can also give energy to trying to FIX situations. Although it would be beyond ME to have much compassion for child molesters, or to try to help them with their problems, there are people out there who do that sort of thing. I would be more apt to turn my energy to helping the victims.

imrose
08-02-2009, 07:55 AM
I would think that beating the perp to a bloody pulp would depend entirely on the circumstances and the basic emotional makeup of the parent. If a parent came upon their child being molested (as happened to one of my childhood friends) it would probably just be instinct to beat the crap out of the person. However, what further emotional trauma would this violence inflict on the child? My friends father did have the presence of mind to remove his daughter from the situation and call the police. Not sure I would have the same restraint, but I would like to think that I would. On the other hand if the violator was not going to be punished by the law it would be hard not to exact some personal revenge...and revenge it is. This is a hard one to call because, at least in the States, it appears that child molesters are constantly released from prison to continue abusing kids. Psychologists have said that pedophiles cannot be cured and should be locked up forever...then we all support them for the rest of their lives.
There is no easy answer to this problem.

Auntie Freda
08-03-2009, 03:00 PM
An incident I had forgotten.
Between marriages, I was "seeing" a lady who had a girl about four years old.
Whilst we went out one evening, the child was left with a trusted male friend.
Some days later, the child described in great detail something which had occurred.
We went to the police - who said they could do nothing because of the lack of evidence.
A group of male friends visited the offender and had a "friendly chat".
When he got out of hospital, he wisely decided to leave the area - so at least the local children were no longer at risk from that source.
However, clearly, the problem had only been re-located elsewhere.

Joyous
08-03-2009, 04:14 PM
Very good point, Freda. Such as Priests who have been moved to a different parish and left free to repeat their offending behavior. Not meaning to pick on Priests. It's just that they are in a position of great trust and sometimes abuse it horribly.
I too have heard that child abusers cannot be changed. I suggest a remote island in very deep water and a patrol boat circling the island at all hours. My sympathy lies with the abused child and I have little to spare for the perp. Applies to rapists and brutal murderers.

Auntie Freda
08-03-2009, 04:43 PM
I KNOW it is a digression Joyous - but not just priests.
I remember here a while back researching the incidence of child sexual abuse within the Jehovah's Witness community.
It was staggering.

Joyous
08-03-2009, 04:51 PM
Freda, I reckon evil knows no bounds. Parents need to spare no effort in protecting their children. I know it happened when I was a child and people kept quiet about it from shame, but it seems far more ramapnt today. I shall research the Adventist for evidence of child abuse. Religion doesn't always keep people from horrid sin, but Jesus's teachings can.

Auntie Freda
08-03-2009, 05:02 PM
There are some aspects to this sick and sorry subject that I find mind-boggling.
From a recent magazine article -
" Special Agent Kathleen Canning works in the FBI's behavioural analysis unit.
She studied 200 online child sex offenders and found that 80% of them HAD UNIVERSITY DEGREES".

That is far higher than the general population
and far higher than for any other type of crime.
I don't know what that reveals. It just seems STRANGE.

Joyous
08-03-2009, 05:09 PM
Truth is, we all have a dark side, some darker than others, but each of us has faced a temptation to do something evil at some moment in our lives. We choose good or evil. I believe we always have a choice and those who choose evil must face the resulting punishment, as society deems suitable. Society must be careful to not be as evil as the one being punished. Otherwise, we all become rotten to the core.

I'm siging out. Have a good day.

Auntie Freda
08-03-2009, 05:11 PM
and vice versa